Why does this keep happening to me!


Do you ever wonder why “things” always happen to you. Good OR bad?

My husband ALWAYS gets his VIP parking spot at the grocery store…ALWAYS.
I am CONSTANTLY approached by people needing advice or help with their relationship.
Some people claim they always have bad luck, or always end up in certain situations.

If you don’t believe in the Law of Attraction, let me hip ya to something. Whether we realize it or not, we are responsible for bringing both positive and negative influences into our lives. You may not realize or even believe it, but you have attracted everything that is currently a part of your life. Wherever you place your focus is what you’re going to bring to your surroundings, positive or negative.

For example, you decide to shop for a new car, the moment you decide what car you want, all of a sudden, you see that car EVERYWHERE. That specific car has always been around, you just never noticed it. It wasn’t until you brought the vision of it into your primary thoughts that you started to notice it all around. Now take that same logic and put it with positive and negative emotions and circumstances. If your mind is in a negative mood, you will focus MORE on the negative aspects that surround your day, negative things will be EXPECTED from you, therefore you will notice the negative things that happen to you. Negativity is in the same family as misery. Even though you prefer to wallow in your negative thoughts by yourself, you don’t realise how much you draw MORE negativity to you. For example, you’re in a bad mood and you don’t want to be bothered. A friend at work tells you a joke that you would normally find funny, but, because of your current emotional state, you brush them off with a smirk. You have just shown that person that your “not in the mood”. You find out later that a group of your friends went out to lunch, that friend would have invited and even paid for your lunch, but because you “weren’t in the mood”, you were not invited. Now, had you been in a positive mood, your company would have been wanted. Like attracts like, you GET what you PUT OUT.

Positive situations that are ALWAYS happening AROUND you will go unnoticed as you continue on with your negative little day. However, if your mind is in a positive mood, you will focus more on the positive aspects that surround your day, the beauty in the flowers you pass will stand out more, which will add to your happiness. You smile more, which makes more people smile back at you. You will be driven, with ease, even compelled to share how good you feel. Therefore, you will automatically receive MORE GOODNESS back! You will feel more energetic (negativity drains you) and will want to, and put action towards, bringing more happiness into your circle.

Keep LOVE in your heart, LOVE is an ACTION and not just a feeling, it’s impossible to effectively express love when you have a negative mindset.

When you THINK negatively, you are asking for more negativity, because it is your main focus. When you THINK positively, you are asking for more positivity, because it is your main focus.
When you master the art of controlling your own emotions, (instead of allowing outside circumstances control your emotions) you will find that you can most definitely bring unto you, whatever you desire.

Now, if you can develop an understanding of the Law of Attraction, and how to use the powerful tools associated with it, you will begin to realize that you are in COMPLETE control of what determines your emotions and your mood.
With that being said, the Law of Attraction is simply believing, trusting, and having FAITH in our Lord Jesus Christ. My personal opinion is that the Law of Attraction aspect was adopted because it was easier for people to consider a scientific explanation of what God has always promised us.

Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you

Matthew 7:7

God IS LOVE. Therefore, God IS POSITIVE. He is ALL THINGS GOOD. Which is why when you feel good…good things come.

Peace & Blessings!

April Hugie

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